I always believe that you realise some one's importance only when that person leaves you. I and am sure everyone of us must have experienced it not once but many times. Its very true that you cant hold on to anyone for your lifetime. Lets say from 100 people you know throughout your life there will be maximum 10 people who will stay with you till death. And you only miss some one for the first few days after they left and then your life comes back to normal and that person goes back into your subconscious mind. Five years down the line you might meet this person by default, you might remember them or you might not or they might not remember you. Life moves on.
The idea of writing this blog today came from my sweet friend Dilpreet is going to Pune for her further studies and we were giving her a short farewell today. While i was coming back to my home i recalled that like her how many people have moved on in their life. And i realised that by now i should be used to this thing, but the truth is NO. I feel bad every time my friend moves into some other place, probably because no one can take the place that person has created, and their absence has created a void in my heart. A void that cannot be filled by any person. Because as the genetic structure of each and every person is different from the other, the same way the personality of every person is different. That is why you miss every person in the same manner even if you have experienced it many times.
Bidding our last bye to her didn't mean that we wont meet her, it was just a mark of celebration for her admission and it had been many days that we had fun. It was a sad feeling though yet i was happy that she stepped further in terms of her career. We recalled the 3 beautiful years we have spent together and were laughing on the number of times we fought and cried and were dropping tears on the fun moments.
Bidding our last bye to her didn't mean that we wont meet her, it was just a mark of celebration for her admission and it had been many days that we had fun. It was a sad feeling though yet i was happy that she stepped further in terms of her career. We recalled the 3 beautiful years we have spent together and were laughing on the number of times we fought and cried and were dropping tears on the fun moments.
In the end I will just conclude that you can't anticipate for how long one person will stay in your life. But the time they spent in your life should be judged by the quality and not quantity. Because it is the quality that will make u remember that person in his absence and you will cherish the good as well as the bad moments you spent with them after you have departed.
Seems like you guys had lots of fun!!! .. I don't even remember most of my school friends' names :( ... Agreed that everyone's unique but there's no point in keeping on missing anyone ... in my opinion you should enjoy with the ones you are in contact with! You should try to keep in touch with all your friends, however you should not lose your heart if you somehow lose contact with any of your good friends .. you'll keep meeting new people and they might even become a better friend!
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